A consultant uses his or her imagination. If I decide for this or that, what will result for me and others? He empathizes with possible effects, it is about harmony, responsibility, humanity.

He discusses these initial ideas with partners or friends. Which offer sounds best? He agrees on ideas like conformity (does it fit us), general acceptance, fashion, trends, image.

Basic needs provide further guidance for our decisions.

Belonging: If I want to belong, I have to fit in. I dress in a way that also pleases my friends. I like products that are modern, and of course I’m also active on social media. A community is created through shared feelings. I am welcome in a group when I create a good atmosphere. For me, life is meaningful when I live in a community that has beliefs and values that I can accept and submit to. We have a common creed.

Empathy: My fellow human beings appreciate my closeness. I discreetly show my good taste. It is important to me to appear pleasant, which includes a well-groomed appearance and unobtrusive cosmetics. How should I be able to empathize with someone if they are angry with me? Peace only comes from mutually positive feelings. For me, a life is meaningful that is holistically humanistic and does not exclude people of other faiths, but ensures mutual understanding and harmony. For me, love is the highest good.